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		<title>By: Devon White</title>
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		<dc:creator>Devon White</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 16:39:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zen Mommy, I couldn&#039;t agree more. The habit of rearing children to be meek, little well-behaved, overly rule-governed automatons needs to be thrown out with all the rest of the square rules of parenting handed down to us from generations who obviously failed in raising healthy, happy, satisfied adults.

This is the same kind of stupidity that John Taylor Gatto is pointing to with American public schools. Education for the ease and benefit of the educator. Let us make good workers! Let me make children that don&#039;t embarrass me! 

Basta! Children raised to pay attention only to the rules of the system rather than their own senses and instincts. This is the way to a child&#039;s kill humanity and create a biological robot. We need to understand how humans get encoded in order to encode for humanity, self-awareness, purpose and passion. Every NO causes trauma to the system. It closes of a pathway for fascination and inspiration. It cauterizes creativity. 

Of course I&#039;m not suggesting that we never say no to our kids. But taking the no standpoint as the main bias for all parenting. &quot;Follow the rules or else!&quot; leads to the a critical handicapping of each child&#039;s unique awareness. 

Stepping off my rant-soapbox now.

Thanks for the poignant message. 

~Devon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zen Mommy, I couldn&#8217;t agree more. The habit of rearing children to be meek, little well-behaved, overly rule-governed automatons needs to be thrown out with all the rest of the square rules of parenting handed down to us from generations who obviously failed in raising healthy, happy, satisfied adults.</p>
<p>This is the same kind of stupidity that John Taylor Gatto is pointing to with American public schools. Education for the ease and benefit of the educator. Let us make good workers! Let me make children that don&#8217;t embarrass me! </p>
<p>Basta! Children raised to pay attention only to the rules of the system rather than their own senses and instincts. This is the way to a child&#8217;s kill humanity and create a biological robot. We need to understand how humans get encoded in order to encode for humanity, self-awareness, purpose and passion. Every NO causes trauma to the system. It closes of a pathway for fascination and inspiration. It cauterizes creativity. </p>
<p>Of course I&#8217;m not suggesting that we never say no to our kids. But taking the no standpoint as the main bias for all parenting. &#8220;Follow the rules or else!&#8221; leads to the a critical handicapping of each child&#8217;s unique awareness. </p>
<p>Stepping off my rant-soapbox now.</p>
<p>Thanks for the poignant message. </p>
<p>~Devon</p>
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		<title>By: Zen Mommy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zen Mommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 14:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“Be the change you wish to see.”  a guiding light for all of us... thank you for the comment &quot;ZenMommie/Michiko&quot;. i am sure your great-grandfather is very proud - where ever he is... of the work you do with children and their families. Blessings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Be the change you wish to see.”  a guiding light for all of us&#8230; thank you for the comment &#8220;ZenMommie/Michiko&#8221;. i am sure your great-grandfather is very proud &#8211; where ever he is&#8230; of the work you do with children and their families. Blessings.</p>
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		<title>By: Michiko Rolek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michiko Rolek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 11:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Suzanne (Zen Mommy) we&#039;re on the same music page re. guiding our children to learn to accept and love themselves and everything else falls into place. For example, working with a challenging child for me is embodying Gandhi&#039;s wise words &quot;Be the change you wish to see.&quot;  From a zen perspective, getting centered with a clear mind, peaceful heart helps us weather any storm.  Our children benefit most when we reach for those enlightened living tools that help us find gentle clarity to reflect and as you said&quot; guide by the side.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suzanne (Zen Mommy) we&#8217;re on the same music page re. guiding our children to learn to accept and love themselves and everything else falls into place. For example, working with a challenging child for me is embodying Gandhi&#8217;s wise words &#8220;Be the change you wish to see.&#8221;  From a zen perspective, getting centered with a clear mind, peaceful heart helps us weather any storm.  Our children benefit most when we reach for those enlightened living tools that help us find gentle clarity to reflect and as you said&#8221; guide by the side.&#8221;</p>
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