If everything happens for a reason, would it not follow that there is but one reason for the things that happen? What if my reason and your reason don’t match? Who gets to name it?
How can we apply reason to all the unreasonable things that happen in this world and to what purpose?
For most all of us who have lost a child, these words ring empty. Though meant to comfort, they leave us with more questions than answers, directing us in our grief to search our minds for what possible reason could exist to explain our pain.
Rather, I would offer that everything in life can have meaning. Why get stuck thinking about reason when we can turn to the heart of the matter for meaning instead? In meaning, we can have endless interpretations; my meaning different that your meaning, though neither one right or wrong in the naming of it.
For me and in my life, even the most tragic of events have had the power to draw me deeper into the fullness of life. In each, I have found meaning.
How about you? What do you believe?
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