Out of the blue, my 8 year-old declares, “I’m into chores now!” in that that slightly amusing way that only a tween girl can declare. So at our next outing to Target, she went in search of a chore chart. Then at home, she and her 6 year old brother went about the serious business of filling it out. (No sarcasm here. Really.)
This is serious. They are taking it seriously and so am I. After all, the more buy-in from Team Sharon, the more cooperation I’m going to have, right?
I heard a friend of mine say once, “You can’t get mad at your teen for not doing any chores if they’ve never had to do it before.” Good point.
Them: What should we put down?
Me: You could put down the chores you are good at and like to do.
(How’s that for Yoga Parenting?!)
Them: So how much do we get when we get all our stars?
Son: How many dollars?
Me: You don’t get paid for chores! You get a clean room, dishes to eat off of, and happy dogs.
Me: …and an extra 30 minutes of screen time, IF you each earn 3 stars a week.
Over the next two days, the boy vacuumed and put everything in the playroom away. The girl made the bed and fed the dogs. Together, they emptied the dishwasher. Wow!
I’m going to call this a successful lesson learned from Ann Jordan on responsibility. They took ownership of the whole thing and so far, it’s working.
I’d love to hear from YOU on how you manage chores in your house. But don’t say you do them all yourself!!! Leave me some pointers, will ya? … in the event that this is just a blissful “phase.”
Practical Mommy is Ria Sharon, co-creator of the Yoga Parenting course. Are you ready for parenting to be easier, more fun and less stressful?